Exactly. There's no way around this - either train your kids in godliness and civility, or let the anarchist humanists do it.
This of course presupposes that the parents have character to teach and are not drunks, do not have mistresses, abandon families, mistreat the children themselves, etc. Never mind the coffee, wake up and see the real world and the horrible things that are done to children often by the people who ought to care and don’t