I don’t know if I’ve ever been to a “gay” bar, though it’s been so long since I went to a bar or club I’m not sure I could recall. I may have, and I have been to clubs where there were clearly homosexuals present. At one time we went to a number of parties in the city where the majority present were homosexuals. Fortunately, nothing out of the ordinary occurred.
When homosexuals mix with others at parties they are on their “best” behavior. If you wander into one of their bars without being with one of them they will make your visit hell.