I think you're over-reaching.
There's isn't a hatred or a despising of nuclear or heterosexual families among the gay community so far as I can tell.
They do push back, big time, at anything perceived as a commandment or expectation that they conform to conventional norms.
When I feel punched in the nose I'll probably have a more animated reaction to gay activism, etc.
I don’t where you live, but I am guessing it is not in a city where homosexuals control the political agenda.
They disrupt church services, both by infiltrating and by protesting outside.
They have public sex, including sadomasochistic sex, in public, at their special events. Nudity and near nudity is routine in the Castro. Photos of these events are published in the local newspaper, and children are taken to these events.
They promote homosexuality in the public school system, and children or parents who oppose it are labelled “haters.” If you opt your kid out of “sex” ed, they put him in there anyway. They ignore you. Homosexual men stand in front of prepubescent kids and describe in detail what they enjoy doing to each other.
They refuse freedom of speech and religion to employees, government civil servants, and those on picket lines. We have bubble zones. We have to hide it if we don’t believe homosexuality is something to be celebrated. Or we will be fired.
We are forced to honor their unions as a marriage similar to that of our grandma and grandpa, with equal value and worth. We must pay the same medical benefits to a homo’s boyfriend as we do to a man’s wife.
We must subsidize their diseases which they routinely seek, with our tax dollars.
We can’t operate an adoption agency unless we agree to place kids with homosexuals. Even if we are a religious adoption agency, such as the Catholics who’ve run orphanages and adoptions for decades.
Charities that don’t embrace homosexuality, such as the Salvation Army, can’t operate here.
Churches are sued. Christian business are sued. You don’t want to photograph a gay “wedding?” You don’t want to bake a cake for a gay porn shoot? You don’t want to hire a gay musician for your worship service? Prepare to be sued.
Legitimate propostions, legally voted on by the people, that threaten homosexual activism, are stymied by the courts and not enforced.
Bus ads and eye level billboards show homosexual porn. You are going to look at it, and so are your kids, “like it or not!”
You do not want homosexuals in political power.
Couldn’t disagree more. When the fight on this subjects goes from the gay lifestyle choice being called what it is to being called normal you are dismissive, in the least and hateful at the high end of what you call normal. How dare we not call them normal. Well then...how do you KNOW what is normal....Who says YOU are normal. How dare you and on and on and on. They have destroyed the argument that the traditional nuclear family gets to be the only thing called family. You and I have allowed them to do it.
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Is that why many of them refer to heterosexuals as "breeders"?
Homosexuals refer to normal people as “breeders”. If that isn’t contemptuous I don’t know what is!