The Copts I know are devote Christians. They are in constant touch with relatives in Egypt. I have known them for decades. They say that Mubarek understands how you must deal with Islam.They fear the rise of theocracies across the Arab world. Once again, what you are saying is the opposite of reality.
Or you are being told what they know you want to hear. BTW, are these Egyptians Copts/Orthodox or Protestants of some sort? That will also make a difference.