Do you prefer an America-hating, foreign-born Mohammedan Communist? It is senseless, personal attacks like your comment that have no serious basis for discussion.
Some women, like my wife, never exhibit any visible signs of “hot flashes”. Either they don’t have any or they are excellent at controlling them. BTW, when menopause set in, we still had five children still at home, one under 5, two under 10 and two teenagers - all boys.