According to Lou Gossett Junior's character in "An Officer and a Gentleman," my two options are either "steer" or "queer."
That would make me a steer, by process of elimination. Good thing I had my horns surgically removed at a young age.
You still did not answer the question. Did you serve? If you didn’t why do you think you should have the right to say having queers in the military is a trivial matter?