Oy vey, MD. I’m sorry that you feel this way.
We may need to frmail each other to make sure we have achieved communication. I don’t feel especially bad that some on the other side feel the need to puke on us. “It is what it is.”
I had a great and thoughtless aversion to the Church when I was in college, even though Aquinas and Dante spoke to me like few others ever have. It’s one of the adversary’s most effective tricks, especially in an age where “feeling comfortable” is assumed to trump reason.
And being abused on FR is a pretty comfortable martyrdom.