If you defend yourself by burning a book while your wife is being raped then I suspect you have bigger problems going on then are being discussed here.
We were talking here of turning the other cheek and what difference does it make of what your doing while something is happening to you or your family the argument was about loving your enemy. I do not beleive that anyone here would stand by and let their family be hurt and not obey the commandment of love your enemey and turn the other cheek. Not even the tn. reformer