I sometimes wonder how long it took the guy to regain consciousness after he caressed the back of my head while I was taking a leak in the Denver Airport mens room. I was still in the military and in uniform at the time. Wtf was he thinking?
He was thinking that if he asked, you might tell ...
I was once accosted by a fag in a college locker room. Told the creep to get lost ... he faded. No actual altercation ... not sure if the sweaty and well worn "gi" in my gym-bag had any influence on his decision.