Infidelity is one of the two missing pieces in the puzzle. A man who supports the legalization of infanticide is morally bankrupt. I would expect him to cheat on his wife and neglect his children. It's possible that he's a homosexual, since he's so limp-wristed. And it may be that he's clever enough not to neglect his children. But it appears that he has little concern for the destitute members of his greater family, like his half-brother and Aunti Zetunie (sp?).
I have often wondered if he is even a decent father (image notwithsanding). He is a complete narcissist, and being a good father demands a level of selflessness. He can't give of himself because he never thinks of anyone except himself. That's why he allows family members to live in destitution and doesn't give a rip.
He cannot, based on what we have clearly seen in him, be either a decent husband or father.
The whole thing is for show.............which is why this story has a ring of truth to it.