Normally, folks who don’t wish or mean to use all inclusive language,
. . .
don’t.
Bored now.
Evidently, you're spoiling for an online scuffle of some sort of another, for some irrational quasi-reason(s) falling, happily, neither within the spheres of my interest or my responsibility. I, in turn, simply decline to play along.
Sorry you find yourself so needlessly and inexplicably agitated, so early this A.M. Mary Poppins always says "a spoonful of sugar helps the medicine go down"... so: I recommend some morning chocolate, by way of anodyne. ;)