“why would any bible believing organization want it any diff?”
Different from what? The Catholic church is no different today. If you are an anglican priest and marry, and then convert, you can still become a Catholic priest.
Nothing has changed. The Apostles, some like Peter were married well before they were called. This is why Paul says that “are you married, remain married”. Yes it is true that married men were sometimes ordained. But ordained priests did not marry.
“But ordained priests did not marry.”
They did in the book of acts.