How have I misunderstood Timothy?
pistos ho logos ei tis episkopes oregetai kalou ergou epithumei.
dei oun ton episkopon anepilhpton einai mias gunaikos andra; nephalion, sophrona, kosmion, philoxenon, didatikon, me paroinen, me plekten, me aischrokerde, all epieike amachon, aphilargon.
The man who desires the office of a bishop desires a good thing.
The ideal bishop must be a man of one woman, sober, sane, orderly, hospitable, didactic, not a drunkard, not quarrelsome, not avaricious, but pacific and parsimonious.
and his children must also be faithful