It won’t be up to you unless this agenda is opposed, that is the whole point! The govt will force those choices on you and you family.
So far, even in the most liberal states, their agenda IS being stopped. It is up to the people to stop it. That’s what we are doing in my state. I personally would like to see a federal marriage amendement, but, in the meantime, we seem to be defeating their agenda one state at a time (with some exceptions). The majority of people are on our side on this issue and it is up to us to actively protect traditional marriage and family values whenever the issues arise. However, I don’t agree with painting with a broad brush and personally attacking a group of people who agree with us on many issues and are not promoting a personal agenda.