Unfortunately, with homosexuals there is nothing more public than their "private" lives. They have aggressively pushed their sexuality into the open. DADT is a great example. They are demanding that government grant them the right to flaunt their "private" sexuality openly in the ranks.
I agree, but using that as the ONLY reason to oppose them when there are huge issues concerning their support of wealth redistribution gives them cover (making us seem like bigots) to actively promote legislation that is destroying our nation financially.
Unfortunately you won't find them admitting that the military MUST inquire into sexual inclinations for everyone lest the sexual sadists get in and do what they do.
Not that all the sexual sadists are homosexual, or vice versa, but both orientations must be viewed as pathologies and not as normal conditions when it comes to military duty. After all, the "tests" for both conditions are the same and it's really difficult to tell them apart until the dead and mutilated bodies start showing up.