No, you’re right.
We’re sorority sisters from college (early 1980s). We’re not alike AT ALL.
One of my friends is a “Marxist-by-Proxy.”
His wife is a rabid commie social worker, and he is a passive dependent wuss.
He is a physician (like me) and goes to Cuba, wants socialzed medicine, loves Obama, is a MoveOn.org member, ad nauseum.