If they are married, they have choices. Men typically don’t have such choices. Occasionally, my wife accuses me of treating her like a slave (typically because I ask for something reasonable). I remind her that I’m the one who has to roll out of bed every morning to support the family, whether I like it or not. I don’t get to watch soap operas, take afternoon naps, or go window shopping. So...who is whose slave?
You probably don’t have to clean toilets, take out the trash, mop the floors, etc.
I don’t know too many women who sit around watching soap operas and going window shopping. I know women who take afternoon naps, but that’s usually because they have young kids and have been running around a lot (or up at night).
Most women I know are extremely busy. This is the first year in 15 years where I haven’t done as much at home, but that’s because I fell in April and I have been dealing with a hip injury. I can’t be on my feet much these days.
I know that men do lots of work, but I think they get recognized for it more (raises, bonuses, rewards) at work. I don’t think stay-at-home moms get many outside rewards. Many husbands forget to say thank you or tell women they are doing an awesome job. Stay-at-home moms don’t get raises or bonuses, and it can sometimes be very overwhelming and lonely.