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To: freemama

I must admit I didn’t read the article but my wife is in this same boat. She loves to work and has a great job in the commerical real estate industry. Only thing is they work her to death, always on call etc etc.

I think we’ve sold a fairy tale to people that both husband and wife can work 50+ hours a week, raise a family and have a great standard of living. A lot of these women are fighting that nagging voice in their head that tells them to spend more time with their children.

When our next is born my wife is leaving her great paying job to stay home with the kids. It is good for the kids and it is good for the family. We just don’t know what we’re going to do with the 30 business suits she has!


11 posted on 01/24/2010 7:56:00 PM PST by ruiner
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To: ruiner

Our glorious Congress has been stealing that choice for years. I wish you guys well.

Nothing better than having the family front and center.


36 posted on 01/24/2010 8:29:54 PM PST by freekitty (Give me back my conservative vote; then find me a real conservative to vote for)
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To: ruiner
Congrats...she will not regret it. I left full time employment when my kids were born, and though we've dug a bit of a hole for ourselves financially, I'd do it all again in a heartbeat. We have a great relationship with our teens because we took the time to develop it over the years.

My suggestion to your wife - keep a few of the suits, find something you're passionate about and get involved part-time. Direct sales is a tremendous outlet for career women. You can set your own hours and goals-make a little money or a lot, and the professional training can't be beat!

Having been a full time and part time stay at home mom, I learned that I was a much better mom if I had a little outside occupation as long as I had say over my schedule. Of course, that involved having a supportive spouse who appreciated his "alone" time with the kids. It truly is the best of both worlds.

38 posted on 01/24/2010 8:31:27 PM PST by Mygirlsmom (Episode 2010: A NEW HOPE)
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To: ruiner

Sell them on e-bay or donate them.

I’ve never regretted staying home with the kids. Good luck to you and your wife.


56 posted on 01/24/2010 9:38:30 PM PST by luckystarmom
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