The red cross gets absolutely zilch, nada, zero, from my pockets!
Period.
Posting directly from their site is real close to advocating one and only one bucket for donations - and I don't trust them to do anything other than to pay their own salaries.
The Salvation Army, yes.
Your church or another church's established charities, yes.
Obama's web site or the Red Cross's web site; no!
The money will never be used for Haitian relief.
Period.
PS: Haiti will be the same open latrine after the eathquake as it was before the earthquake, but you might feel better about it.
OTOH, you are probably right about Haiti, but that can't stop us from giving some immediate help. Over the long run the best help they can have is help throwing off the shackles of socialism.