It is stuff like this (combined by Bush’s foreign policy and domestic bungling) that has led to the signficant rise of self-identified atheists in the last decade.
The typical narc pastor thinks the worship service is all about him, and that he is the font of some sort of "therapy." So the worship service abandons communion, not enough time for all that wine and bread, and is instead a box with a voice that never stops talking. "Feed my sheep"--but no time to do that. Gotta talk, talk, talk.