What your seeing is a natural reaction to having something crammed down your throat (possibly a bad phrase to use in this thread) and the resentment it creates.
The way to defuse it is not to admonish the people here, but to get the other side to back the f-— off , stand down and get out of our faces, schools, etc...
Personally, I have a live and let live attitude but that requires that I be allowed to completely disassociate myself from those I disagree with. I am almost positive that 99% of the people here in this thread feel the same way. The anger you see grows from the FORCED association and the constant battering of an agenda.
Assuming you plan to attend CPAC, who do you expect will "force" you to stop at GOProud's booth, and/or attend any functions and speeches they may organize?