Slow down just a bit.
Slow down? What should I slow down? Seriously.
It angers me that those who would “lead” do so using psychology and propaganda and not wisdom or truth, and often, not even real knowledge. I have debated Yeshiva Rabbis, Baptist Ministers, Jehova’s Witnesses, etc., and won. People are taught nothing that doesn’t fit into a niche, but you should NEVER stop learning.
If you refuse to seek knowledge out of the comfort of your “group,” then you are limited and your ability to reason with G-d is diminished. When you choose NOT to seek knowledge, you betray your own humanity which is the gift G-d gave us all.