Can you really be this naive? A judicial ruling has the force of law and always has (or at least since 1803). That is not open to debate. None of us like abortion or Roe V. Wade but is a judicial ruling from the Supreme Court and therefore is, in effect, the law of the land. That doesn't mean that we don't try to fight it somehow, but we can't ignore it like an elephant in the room as you seem to want to do.
You can read the Constitution yourself and no doubt have done so, but that doesn't change the reality on the ground. Judicial decisions have the force of law and are de facto law. Even if you hate that fact with every fiber of your being and spend every waking hour wishing it where different, it's not. I can cite many decisions that we hate, such as Kelo, but they do still have the force of law. Standing on constitutionality, which nowadays has a different meaning than you seem to think, doesn't change that.