Being a psychopath, I don’t think Obama can love any human being other than himself. To Obama people are simply objects like chess pieces - Things to be moved, used and abused for the greater glory of The One.
That's right, love if ever felt at all isn't the same for a narcissist. Show him enough love, though, and the narcissist might want to keep you. Frank gave him psychological escape and that help commit Obama to being used by subsequent numerous handlers, many of whom aren't know but suspected.
Narcissists are hard to herd, meaning he has some powerful puppet masters.