Here it is..the guy’s postings(just found it on the internet)
http://www.scribd.com/doc/3989813/Martyrdom-in-Islam-Versus-Suicide-Bombing
In the post you linked the writer Hasan equates a soldier falling on a grenade to save his buddies with suicide bombers.... FAILING to make the distinction that the former is a RESPONSE to an attack and the latter IS AN ATTACK!