Stop right there. You're the FReeper winner of the century! (We are going to enter you as our FREEPER rep into the broader Web-wide world competition!) You've set a new FREEPER record by conveying two 180-degree contradictory emotive expressions in ONLY four words!!! Wow!!! Impressive!!!
(And in case, you still don't understand how you "won," may I suggest you analyze that word, "detest". Perhaps you could ask 100 of your friends, "If I told you, I detested you, would you think I was negatively judging you?")
I really don't need to ask even one person to explain what I said. ...and I repeat, "I detest judgmental people."
I didn't JUDGE you to be a judgmental person, I had no need to, you and no one else defined yourself as such, loudly and clearly.