It is a tad amusing to see people alternate between posting give-me-liberty-or-give-me-death pronouncements on the one hand and complaining that they simply can't bear a few unkind words on the other....
The problem is not that you said unkind words. The problem is you were talking behind your target's back by not pinging them.
But I've come to expect that kind of difficulty in grasping basic logic from you.