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It isn't the potentiality of their forgiveability. It's simply that, if God made everything, including us, then He is able to apply redemption to those who chooses, and pass by the rest. A sad, but at the same time beautiful, metaphor is that of a grain of wheat. The unsaved are like the outer chaff, They are needed to preserve the germ so that, when the time is right, the germ will sprout. The chaff, too, have great value, even though their ultimate destiny is not to eternal life. They, too, are important, God's handiwork.

God works this way, I truly believe in my heart, making all things work together for good to those who love Him.

[TaraP]

My friend...That is just not correct...

What did Jesus say:

ROMANS 10:9
That if you confess with your mouth, “Jesus is Lord,” and believe in your heart that God raised him from the dead, you will be saved....

We believe in Christ as a gift of God. Paul couldn’t be clearer: ‘By grace you have been saved through faith. And this is not your own doing; it is the gift of God, not a result of works, so that no one may boast’ (Eph 2:8-9).

Our salvation by God’s grace through faith is precisely that — it is by grace, and thus not our own doing, but the free gift of God. We don’t believe because of any other reason but that we’ve received it as a merciful gift from our Lord. Who then can boast of his faith? Rather, we boast in God, we boast in the work of Christ for us (Gal 6:14)