If a child that is eleven, and walking, talking, or simply dressing like a skank, the thought would enter my mind, as to did her mother make her dress that way, or did did she choose her outfit?
If her mother chose to dress her that way, by cajole or by force, then what exactly is the Mother's motive?
If the child herself chose to dress that way, what is her motive?
I would not simply assume that a naked girl dancing down the street is so overjoyed that she forgot her clothes, but then, that is me. You obviously have higher levels of intellect and see nothing but the good in all.
I was using an exaggerated example of a behavior to show it is never appropriate to attack a child personally. Sorry if you have trouble grasping that.