For a man to desire another man in that way is so odd, it would take a traumatic realignment. There’s no other way a guy could be attracted to a guy.
I also was mystified by their compulsion (some of them) to dress up like women.
I had led a very sheltered life and this was all such a shock to me. I couldn’t understand why if they were supposedly not attracted to women, why they did that, acted like women.