I suppose it is how you want to look at the “joke”. As he told the “joke” it sounds like rape.
I wouldn’t have taken it that way if Willow weren’t the one at the game. I would have taken it as a very classless disgusting joke about Bristol being promiscuous. In reality, neither is defensible; but, it wouldn’t have been rape in the latter case.
The part of his apology that I don’t buy is that he asked if Bristol was of age. Yeah, right.
But, the rest of it sounded okay so at least we have that. You don’t normally get a lib admitting they were wrong about anything.