LOL! Yep that seems like what happend everytime anyone tries to discuss the issue. I have to tell you, a guy Dh works with recently converted because his wife and kids are Catholic. He’s been amazed at how the Christian church he was raised in complely distorted the chuch. He basically said they outright lied about it and did make us into “evil Catholic”. He’s pretty mad about it all.
My DH did RCIA with a couple that had the same experience.