>>>how exactly do you have a war with nukes
JFK answered that in 1962. His quote about losing control of a nuclear situation: “there is always some bastard who doesn’t get the word”
>>>I remember hearing rumors that a nuclear bomb may have been exploded during the Sino-Soviet border conflict
Supposedly a localized Russian armor probe into China was stopped by a nuclear land mine. Whereupon both sides got serious and resolved the border dispute posthaste.
Maybe well have some interesting reading in a few years...