>>There is no ban on gays serving in the military.
Correct.
Gays just are not to brag about their sexual adventures.
And even that would already be covered by the code of conduct.<<
Those who happen to be gay but do not subscribe to the “contemporary gay lifestyle” are free to server in my opinion.
Those who live the lifestyle should only be allowed to serve in separate units. Call it the 69th Raging Queen division.