I know only a small number of women who have ever had abortions, that I know of.
None of them have had particularly happy personal lives.
It all came together for me when I found out that my Borderline Personality ex-wife had two abortions before our marriage. Rightfully she figured that I would not have married her had I known that fact. Unfortunately her bizarre behavior continues as she vacillates between being a professional mistress or a homewrecker.
Lack of road map of life will do that.