“Would you prefer to have sex with them with or without a condom?”
Question for you.
Would you have sex with a full blown AIDS patient who is wearing a condom, or you wearing a condom, which ever the case may be? If you're so secure in your confidence of a condoms protection against sexually transmitted diseases, then you shouldn't have a problem with that.
Here's a different way to look at it. If you lived in Minnesota, would you equip your house with winter storm windows, or winter storm screens?
You failed to answer my question, but I will answer yours.
Yes, if I were to have sex with a person who has HIV/AIDS, I would only do so wearing a condom.