Agreed! You’re right - bad analogy - I was coming from my own experience of my marriage - in which we have worked out our differences for over 30 years! All the complainers only complain and do not actively get involved is what I am saying (see my previous post about getting involved).
My point was - where do the conservative go to if they won’t work within the party? The last time - when Dobson called for a Christian conservative to boycott the 2006 election - the conservatives got creamed! When we did not fill the void - the liberals did! And the RINOS took over the party! By our boycott - we hurt our cause and ourselves! And we still have!
Just like someone else posted here - we “cut off our nose to spite our face!” Brilliant!