I would find it impossible to give her a “Sign of Peace” at Mass.
I understand your feelings. I have trouble letting go of my anger towards P, Kerry, and Kennedy. Maybe she will drop dead when she meets the Pope like Ananius and Saphira did in front of Peter (Acts 5).
The Catholic Church and all of the other churches need to take a hard line on this, or FOCA will soon be law.
Pray for Pope Benedict.