So long as his actions are legal and Constitutional, then yeah, we're stuck with them. Even more importantly, the military is bound by his decisions as CiC, so long as those decisions are legal and Constitutional.
Your argument is worthless because in BHO’s eyes, and those of his stripe, the Constitution is a “living” document; to wit: He will make it to mean whatever his minions find convenient for their cause at the time. Remember this is the man who stated the Constitution is a fundamentally flawed document.
Everything Adolph Hitler did, he did under color of “law” ... so please spare me the argument of legality. There is a higher law: the moral code. Americans have lost sight of THAT “law” written by our Creator, and hence we have the perversion of all law... and the ascendancy of reprobate men, such as is BHO, to fill the executive, legislative and judicial branches of our local, state and federal governments. Now the last American bastion of decency and the moral code - our military - is targeted for the systematic infiltration of moral ambiguity and perversity. This is how Germany fell. This is how the Roman republic fell first the people, then the government and lastly the military. WE ARE FOLLOWING THAT SAME COURSE!
As I posted previous, blind obedience to that which is clearly designed to create disunity among the rank and file soldier, and destroy general morale among the military services as a whole, is insanity.
We are being effectively destroyed by that which we hold superior: the law, or, more precisely, “legalism.” Knowing the history of tyrannical regimes if President BHO writes an executive order that commands the U.S. military to disarm American civilians, would you expect our soldiers obey that order, even though its execution would be a clear violation of the Second Amendment (which may only be altered through Congress by a constitutional amendment, passed by 2/3 of the state legislatures)? The Divine Law is wisdom and justice; legalism possesses neither virtue. Remember your Old Testament, and the Book of Judges. When the people are corrupt, then the law will be corrupt and the nation will fall.
BHO will act to destroy or severely weaken our military, just as he will act to undermine our culture, and thus “reprogram” Americans to fit the “new paradigm”... following his orders... those that are written in the communist manifesto. Or have you already forgotten the cabal with whom Barak Hussein Obama associated, until it became no longer politically expedient?
The Constitution is not a suicide pact, especially when a Marxist, or an adept of socialist teachings, is the one interpreting its meaning. How far must we drift from our moorings before individuals, such as your self, grow a set and determine to take committed action? By the time you acknowledge our peril, it will be to late to act. I would argue that not only have we broken free of the moorings, we are on a speed boat moving at full throttle towards the falls. We are definitely living in times analogous to the frog in the pot. This is how republics die slowly by increasing degrees of indifference. While legalists are busy fiddling, the American Republic burns. There is a maxim written that if one does not fight when he may win, then there will come atime where he must fight knowing he will loose. Your contentions exemplify that maxim.