[Prokopton]

Women don’t necessarily “deny” their husbands sex. He makes married sex sound like something that is a given, paid for one time on the wedding day. Worse, he seems to make a threat: if you don’t . . . Sex shouldn’t be a threat, a weapon, or relegated to a bodily function.

Remember that if you want to change a woman’s mood, you should talk to her or get her to talk to you.

This exact sentiment has ultimately ended many marriages. If women would honestly tell men that "look, after we get married you will have to constrain your daily sexual desires and be satisfied with how many, or few, times I am in the mood", fewer men would be duped and fewer marriages would be "on the rocks".

[Chinstrap61a]

As a fine old Gunnery Sergeant of my acquaintance once said:

"You have Summer in your hair and Winter in your eyes, but if you don't get some Spring in your butt, baby, it's over the Falls for you"

Semper Fi

[TalonDJ]

If women would honestly tell men that "look, after we get married you will have to constrain your daily sexual desires and be satisfied with how many, or few, times I am in the mood",
"and if I am not in the mood it is your fault so you better fix it before getting near me."

[longtermmemmory]

Reminds me of the joke where a woman tells the divorce judge her husband is a sex maniac because he wants annual sex.

(for those in rio linda, sexual relations once a year.)

[Twink]

Sex isn’t just her decision or choice. It should be a decision made by the couple, it IS a decision made by the couple during the marriage vows, imo.