[Scotswife]

so I guess it comes down to - how often is she opting for choice #2?

Because if the answer is “too often” - then somebody hasn’t taken the time to understand how to get a female response going.

[TalonDJ]

Because if the answer is “too often” - then somebody hasn’t taken the time to understand how to get a female response going.

Or she is thinking her options are only 1 and 2 and she needs to be more open and communicate.