If the woman was 17 or 18, isn’t it legal for him to bang her like the Liberty Bell? Ethical no, legal yes?
Legal, perhaps. Ethical, no. A youth pastor to teens is as a high school teacher to students. Generally, teachers that grope students, much less “bang” them, are breaking the law, and certainly will lose their job. I think those laws hold regardless of the age. So if you’re into young girls who are technically legal, stay away from the ones who you are responsible for.