In an attempt to find some common ground, I would suggest that Ronald Maximus Reagan put together the three components (SoCon, FiCon and DefCon and those who want their very own MeCon) rather well by articulating the movement (small government, individual liberty, peace through strength, Golden Rule) very well and valued the varying perspectives of each group. He never would alienate any one group.
My theory is that we need each other or we will never defeat the Democratic Socialists again. I promise never to attempt to convert you to (or require your affirmation of) my religion as long as you promise not to begrudge or prohibit my free exercise thereof to stay in the party?
Great post. What an example President Reagan was and still is. God bless him.