No one in my immediate family ever said thanks for serving, (They loved me most of the time. :) don't let your brother be treated that way.
Just another Old Vet's opinion.
I kiss and hug my brother every chance I get and tell him that he is my hero. Our entire family is proud of him and shows him all the time. I am so sorry you were denied that. I wish I could give you a kiss and a hug but alas cyberspace won't allow it. Let me say that I thank you from the bottom of my heart for fighting for my freedom! You are my hero too!