And the problem is, these particular in-laws wouldn’t even see a problem with this. They are lost and I’m done with them.
What I think I might say is this, “OK, here’s my husband’s wallet. Take whatever you want because now you’re entitled to it.”
To heck with that! Tell them to hand you THEIR wallet, that you want them to start spreading the wealth to you, since THEY were the ones that voted for it and apparently believe in it.