I believe in being effective, which some can intepret as “negative.” It’s subjective. However, its far past time to be subtle.
Maybe I’m a bit nutz. Most leaders are. I don’t rain on your parade. You can help by not discouraging others.
You are getting some good, constructive advice from a lot of long-standing freepers here. Maybe you could quit yelling at them long enough to absorb at least some of what they are saying.