Passive aggression typically results from fear, insecurity, wanting to be “nice”, not wanting to cause waves or hurt other people’s feelings, etc. It also stems from a desire to have other people like you and accept you.
It really is unhealthy too.
I used to be like that but overcame it, thanks to God. It takes courage to be bluntly honest about where you stand on things. It takes a tremendous amount of courage when you first start but it gets much easier with time. It’s not easy, but honesty truly is the best policy. It’s also a huge weight off your shoulders once you learn how to stand up for yourself. It’s extremely liberating!
My heart goes out to you. Feel free to FReepmail me anytime ok?
Thanks, I will.