[MtnClimber]

My wife can’t rack the slide on any of my semi-autos. I got her a 357 magnum and keep it loaded with 38+P. She isn’t interested in concealed carry, she just relies on me for that. She doesn’t stop to think that I am not always there.

[LTCJ]

My wife has the same problem - weak grip from a shoulder injury keeps her from racking.
She doesn't carry as often as she should IMO. She has the mindset to use it - just to lazy to carry the weight/bulk. She's going to next week, though, if I have to superglue it into her hand.