>>Ive had perfect human beings here at FR telling me all day that it matters.<<
IMO, it does matter. It matters a whole lot.
The daughter did not abort the baby. The father stuck around and is “doing the right thing”, the grandparents are not stringing her up for this.
The only other thing that I could think of to make it different but beautiful, would be if the girl gave the baby up for adoption.
Just different though.
Yes but, that’s not what I’ve been hearing.