[WackySam]

No, it was the advocating of adoption that was sickening. I am truly trying to understand why adoption is considered by some to be “second-best” not a co-equal choice with keeping the baby.

I never said that either.

Is English your first language?

[pa mom]

From your #2943: “It’s your default position of encouraging them to put their child up for adoption that is sickening.”

I have a slight grasp of English, and I think I think I recognize the word ‘sickening’ in that sentence.

I have been nothing but honest and polite with you and I asked you a question for my own erudition. I requested that you clarify a statement because of real curiosity. I did not treat you with scorn or derision. I appreciate the same consideration from you.